20/02/2020 11:29 AM IST

Mum Shares Heartbreaking Video Of 9-Year-Old Son Traumatised By Bullying: ‘If I Don't Stand Up And Speak Out For Him, Who Will?’

Activist Yarraka Bayles says her son, who has dwarfism, is severely bullied every single day.


Yarraka Bayles
Nine-year-old Quaden faced bullying everyday at school.

Queensland mum Yarraka Bayles has been flooded with support after live-streaming a heartbreaking video of her nine-year-old son’s despair after being bullied over his short stature.  

Bayles, an advocate for Indigenous issues and disability awareness, told NITV that she went to pick her son up from Brisbane’s Carina State School on Wednesday and witnessed another student picking on Quaden because of his height.   

Quaden was born with achondroplasia, a common form of dwarfism. 

After returning to the car, a fed-up Bayles started to film her son’s anguish in hopes of urging parents to take action against the nonstop bullying her son endures.  

“I’ve just picked my son up from school, witnessed a bullying episode, rang the principal, and I want people to know – parents, educators, teachers – this is the effect that bullying has,” Bayles said in the Facebook Live video. 

“All it takes is for one more instant. You wonder why kids are killing themselves.” 

Bayles explained in the video that the taunting and teasing of her son is constant and he often has thoughts of taking his life. 

In tears, Quaden said in the video: “I just want to die right now.

“Give me a knife I want to kill myself.” 

As of Thursday afternoon, the Facebook Live was viewed 4 million times and has received 96,586 shares across the social platform.  

Prominent community members, including sports stars, have pledged their support to Quaden online.  

“That is one of the saddest things I’ve ever seen,” Aboriginal artist Allan Mckenzie said before donating a print of his famous “Because of Her We Can” to Quaden’s mum.   

“I want you and your family Quaden to know we stand with you, brother we support you in your journey, brother.”  

“This is the hardest video I’ve watched. A 9 year old boy wanting to kill himself due to bullying at school. What is going on in our world? Let’s rally behind Quaden & show him that not everyone is against him,” “Here Come the Habibs” comedian Rob Shehadie said on Twitter.  

“Quaden’s mother shared publicly a video of him begging for a rope to take his own life due to bullying. The thing about blackfellas is, you bully one of us,you bully all of us. We stand with you Quaden and we need you here, on earth,” shared activist Nessa Turnbull-Roberts

AFL legend Leigh Matthews called for a long-term plan to stop discrimination of short-statured people. 

“This is the impact on a nine-year-old kid that just wants to go to school, get an education and have fun,” Bayles explained in the video. 

“But every single freaking day, something happens. Another episode, another bullying, another taunt, another name-calling.”

Bayles told NITV there has also been criticism of the video, but she was prepared for that.  

“I have copped a lot of backlash for it, I thought twice about deleting it but I wanted people to see the effect bullying is having on my child,” she told the publication. 

“If I don’t stand up and speak out for him, who will?”

Bayles added that disability awareness needs to be raised within schools and the discrimination needs to be addressed in order to save lives. 

“Nobody knows the battles we face in private. I usually share all the positive highlights, but this stuff needs to be addressed to save our babies’ lives.”

NITV reports Quaden has since been removed from the school and will likely be home-schooled.

Bayles told the publication she does not blame any specific child, although she is urging the school to take more action to educate students and parents about the effects of bullying.  

If you or someone you know needs help:

Kids Helpline on 1800 551 800

Lifeline on 13 11 14

Beyond Blue on 1300 22 46 36

Headspace on 1800 650 890

Outside of Australia, please visit the International Association for Suicide Prevention for a database of resources.