She was 35 years old and had three beautiful daughters aged 16, 9 and 5. Her husband had left her for another woman who was pregnant with his child. In Indonesia, both the law and religion permit Muslim men to marry up to four women, no questions asked.
Swapna is the author of http://www.practical-mom.com and http://www.globetrotting-mom.com. She has a background in business management but has been an expat wife since they moved to Indonesia & their son came into their lives. She currently lives with her husband and 4 year old son in Santiago, Chile.
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