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The arrival of a third member in your family, no matter how innocent and adorable, can disrupt several things in your life that you may take for granted. But aside from the financial and social sacrif...
Sometimes the real solutions are directly available and visible but the Chinese whisperers - the mediators, well-wishers and lawyers -- obscure our vision and we aren't able to see clearly. What we see is a distorted version of the truth because the "whisperers" come in with their own biases which they pass off as experience and this adds to further stress in the marriage.