CHINESE WHISPERS

Paul Gilligan via Getty Images

Chinese Whispers And Divorce

Sometimes the real solutions are directly available and visible but the Chinese whisperers - the mediators, well-wishers and lawyers -- obscure our vision and we aren't able to see clearly. What we see is a distorted version of the truth because the "whisperers" come in with their own biases which they pass off as experience and this adds to further stress in the marriage.