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Healing is a painful process but if you can go through every stage, and remain vested in the journey, then the road ahead will get easier. The first thing is to grieve, and to deal with your anger.
While talking with such family members may be good for reclaiming your voice, if you are not ready and have not created a strong support group for yourself, it may even derail your healing journey. Speaking to them before you have done the ground work may result in you focussing on your abuser or your family members, rather than work on your healing. You will need to be patient and build a solid foundation before taking this difficult course of action.