Our civilian friends have a lot of things to say to us: "You are so strong!" and "How do you do it?" being the most popular ones. I also get "But what about your career? " a lot from concerned friends and random acquaintances. But here, I have five crucial aspects of an Army wife's life that outsiders may not know. Sure, you've heard it all. But do you really know how we deal with it? Do you want to know? Well, here you go.